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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Introvert speaking. Reach a compromise. Socialize one weekend of the month and put a time limit on it, 3-4 hours of hanging out then everyone goes home.

Or chill at home all day then meet friends for dinner.

I sense you are mocking the trips to Target. To an introvert, doing things other than reading or watching TV can be draining.  [/quote]

Do not do this. It is not compromising. My husband has put these limits on me for 10 years, it is control. I had many friends before, now I just have a few. It also limits your kids. Please find a way to keep socializing rather than isolating yourself. It catches up with you in time and is very depressing. Think of a solution that allows you to have your needs met as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

OP here. This is the issue.
I feel depressed because I only have "access" a small chunk of life under these conditions.

And when it is my "turn" to choose what we do, I hear about how awful it is/hard it is, but I am supposed to be so happy and grateful that the other person stepped out of the comfort zone for 3 hours.

I love Target, or any mall, but that isn't exactly a night at the opera. Feels like a pumpkin shell. [/quote]

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