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[quote=Anonymous]Try not to overthink it.  I see a lot of my friends getting really stressed and way overthinking dating because they are anxious to marry (or remarry) and have kids (or have more kids.)  And guys can sometimes sense that and run.

Just enjoy yourself.  If you meet a guy who seems interesting, flirt a bit and see if he asks you out.  If he asks you out, go.  Don't look at him as a potential husband, just enjoy the night out.  If he turns out to be really terrible, try to remember all the ways in which he's terrible so you have a funny story for your friends.  If he turns out great, then you can start figuring out the logistics a few weeks down the road.

If you're not meeting anyone interesting, go online (i like OK Cupid) and see what's out there.

If someone seems great but you can't get the schedules to work, he's probably not the right guy for you.  (i.e. if he's long-distance and his custody schedule is very different - makes it hard to get a relationship off the ground.)

good luck![/quote]

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