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[quote=Anonymous]If you're able to maintain boundaries and cut off the personal one-on-one relationships, but still show up for group functions every now and then, then that might be less dramatic and leave the door open for you to reengage when/if you want to - like when you have children. I'm really sorry that they say such awful things, but there people are gossips and don't know how to be happy. That's why they're doing this. It's not about you, even though you were the subject of discussion, but they're also gossiping and backbiting about each other, and just living miserable lives. If you can distance yourself from that, focus on creating healthy dynamics with your new husband, and just show up once a year to say hello and be friendly, then it may not hurt so much and you may still achieve what you want, without as many of the downsides. And no more loans or big gifts obviously. [/quote]
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