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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's OK to feel bad about someone's situation in life without feeling that you need to DO anything about it. Light a candle for her, send her good thoughts, and see a counselor if you can't be at peace with the state of your relationship with her.[/quote]

This story is very familiar.  I have a childhood friend going through a very similar situation.  I am so sorry to hear, OP.  You are not alone.  Do what you can.  I would bet, as a government employee, your sister could take an early retirement.  Maybe you could have direct deposit for her retirement, so she doesn't blow it.  Maybe she could be put in subsidized housing, maybe she could go into a group home. Many states have great mental health care.  A group home is not ideal, BUT your sister would be safe and take her meds (if not, they would hospitalize her).  I give these suggestions because sometimes, mental health gets worse with age, and it might be better to use what you can possibly have available to you.  If not, you have your own family to take care of.  I wish you peace with whatever you decide.

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