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[quote=Anonymous]how do you, as an adult with a spouse and children of your own, deal with planning visits to see your parents and in-laws (your kids' grandparents)? Do you just assume your parents/in-laws want your family to come visit them (and stay with them) and ask them when would be a good time for you to come (essentially inviting yourself though) or do you wait until they specifically ask you to come visit them? I know my parents and my in-laws love seeing my kids (and me and my husband) but I'm just wondering if it is too presumptuous to propose a date that we come visit or if we should let them be the ones to more formally invite us to come? I don't want to put them in an awkward position of feeling forced to host us but I want to go ahead and plan our summer travels and they haven't said anything indicating they expect us to visit...[/quote]
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