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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ha! Yes, my father cheated.  He held out for a long long time, but my mother is a psycho bitch, and was emotionally abusive as hell.  He and my stepmother are not exactly prizes, but they are fast approaching their 20th wedding anniversary (much longer than either was married to their previous spouses).

BTW - my mother did that "poison the well" crap with my sisters as well - and the damage is clearly not from Dad's cheating, but from the years of hearing my mother spewing vitriol.  Your mother did you a terrible disservice by making you a party to one side or the other and using you - a child - as her "confidante".  Puke.

How did it affect me? It was a relief - I was hoping it would hasten the divorce, and it did.  Looking back as an adult, [/quote]

OP - I, too, was glad when my parents divorced.  It was a relief from their constant fights and from always waiting for the other shoe to drop in the form of another mistress coming to light.  It sounds as if you feel your mother deserved to be cheated on though, so that probably made your father's cheating easier for you.[/quote]

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