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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, his wife died suddenly only a year ago and he's ready for you to move in with him? Red flag right there.[/quote]
+1 It sounds like he's trying to pick up where he left off with her. It's very sad, but he's not over her. He fell in love again way too soon.[/quote]

OP here.

In the interest of full disclosure, we knew each other in HS, lost touch for a few years after graduation, loosely dated during junior year of college before he met his wife, lost touch for several years then reconnected and kinda stayed in touch for the last 5 years--Christmas cards, happy birthday texts.

Yes, he wants to be in a marriage. He was married 20 years and takes no pleasure in the dating world.

For my part, there is a sense that we're both older and at the stage in our lives where we realize it's about companionship, having someone we know and trust to grow old with. We both did the marriage and children thing in our 20s. The kids are practically adults and I simply look forward to settling down with a friend, building a home for the grandkids and place for our adult children to visit for the holidays. [/quote]

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