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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I don't know, taking vows seems to indicate that infedelity isn't really included as normal! [/b]We have a very average marriage, which I too equate to meh. We get along great, I'm DW and the breadwinner, but we both have equal access to accounts and decision making. Sex life ebbs and flows, sometimes we argue, but we still have fun. Do we have wild passion in our marriage? No. We are in the throngs of working and parenthood. So, to me that's average! [/quote]

And yet, statistically speaking, this is one of the biggest reasons for marriages splitting.

OP HERE - Trust me, if you had asked me a year ago, I would say, hell no. We were really on the verge of splitting for good. It was a very dark time for both of us.

That being said, statistically speaking around half or more of marriages have a spouse stray , vows or no.

But what I'm saying here folks- I don't think my relationship is that different or super special than a lot of people's. I'd say we are average. We survived it. Yes, by choice. For some people, that's a line in the sand, but at the same time.. We tried to mindful. Right or wrong, I know neither of us have regrets of chosing what we did. Happiness is a choice ever single day. I chose not to be pissed about dishes or vacuuming. Could I be? Yep.. But what's the point? [/quote]

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