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[quote=Anonymous]I think you can save your marriage. Being different means you both are good at different things. That means you both make up for each other. This should be strength of your marriage. First of all pick and choose your battles. Make some boundary such as: if he takes credit for something then let it go. However, confront him when he unnecessary tries to blame you.

On the flip side think about if he feels valued in this marriage? Ask yourself the same. If both answers are no, then seek professional help. A successful marriage takes a lots of patience. Try to look at things objectively. It will be hard but really try to appreciate the positive things he brings into the relationship, while being firm on your ground that you will not tolerate being blamed. Blaming someone else is habit, which does not change but he can learn to accept his character flaw. There is a saying ( in another language) "husband and wife are like garment for each other (garment hides ones flaws)."[/quote]

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