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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks everyone. Ive moved forward at rapid speed because I knew always that the problem was DH- I worked with professionals and tried all their advice, and realized that HE was NOT trying ANY of it. A social worker pointed me in the right direction, thank goodness. I never thought I deserved this and I never drank the Kool Aid. I am very fortunate to have the support I have and the wonderful childhood that I did have that allowed me to understand, to an extent, what was happening. All that being said, I am humbled by the cumulative effect of abuse, and now understand a whole lot more about all forms of abuse. I plan to move forward and become a therapist as I had wanted to for a long time, and work with children. The romance thing I know is a mine field of sorts. I admit I am damaged, but I dont think beyond repair. I may not ever confer benefit of the doubt. I discussed more with my old friend and we have reached an agreement that we both feel like comforting each other non sexually is ok and not so risky considering everything else... But we are still just talking. Thank you everyone for the great feedback. And lets keep this thread going because I think its important.[/quote]
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