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[quote=Anonymous]Research and prepare. It doesn't sound like either one of them will be willing to move without a crisis precipitating it--which means you and DH ought to have your ducks in a row in terms of facilities identified and that sort of thing if/when a decision has to be made quickly. If there are mental health/hoarding issues compounding, I doubt your MIL will leave willingly. Research companies that do estate sales and deal with hoarders (depending on how bad it is, there are hoarding clean up companies out there that are used to these situations). The last thing you and DH will need to do when there's a medical crisis is have to clean out the house yourselves, especially since you're long distance. Prepare to have help for that when the time comes also. I imagine neither will move until one of them dies--MIL then unwillingly, FIL willingly. Good luck.[/quote]
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