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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with you, OP.  I've posted here for years about my husband not being into touch generally and having a fairly low sex drive.  I was faithful all through our dating years, engagement and the first seven or so years of marriage. Then I met a guy who just swept me off my feet. I couldn't have stayed married without the OM, and it's definitely been best for my kids that their family is intact.

I would feel guilty if my affair prevented me from giving the time and attention to my husband and kids that they need and want, but since it didn't, it's a win win.[/quote]

OP here. You're actually talking about a different scenario than I am.  I am not talking about maintaining a mistress/mister on the side because that speaks to longterm duplicity and a host of other issues.  I can definitely see how being an unwitting co-wife/co-husband would piss a person off.

I am talking about a simple oil change.  A one-time cleaning of the pipes, so to speak.  I don't see why one-offs without feelings, money, or time exchanged fill people with such guilt/anger.[/quote]

In your first post, based on how your worded it, you are a man. Yet, your references makes it appear you are a woman. Now on this response to the woman poster you again use very male terms.[/quote]

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