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[quote=Anonymous]Make this an adult drama to the largest extent you can. If she does communicate with him (sends him a holiday card or a present), don't go ballistic. Don't snatch it away or tear it up. If an email gets into his in box, it gets into his in box. You are making her relationship with your child into a power struggle and it really doesn't need to be. If you want to cut ties with her, that's fine. But a lot of what you are doing seems more like you are out to "teach her a lesson" and be on eternal vigilance against her. When you want someone out of your life, you stop thinking about them, you don't monitor constantly.[/quote]
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