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[quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who can't take a freaky/promiscuous man seriously as a significant other?

I am a freak myself.  I like a lot of fringe things and am as horny as they come.  And yet, the men I meet who match me kink for kink turn me off as partners because they are dirty to me.  I realize that I am the female equivalent of men who have a madonna/whore mentality.  If a man can meet my sexual desires, then immediately, I look down on him and he becomes too depraved in my eyes to meet my family and be the father of my children.  There was one guy I was dating who seemed very usptanding, but boring.  He noticed I was bored and started waving his freak flag.  Immediately, our sex life got way better, but then I started looking for someone else to date seriously while keeping the other guy as fuck buddy.

I have spent the last two years with a man who was very inexperienced and stiff in bed with not much of a libido (5-7 minutes and he's down for the count).  He bores me sexually, but I respect him as a man.  I actually tried to get him to participate in some of my kinks and when he was turned off, I knew he was the one for me long term.  I am probably going to marry him and I will be faithful too because I don't believe in cheating.  I just kind of laugh at how weird I am about men.

I wonder what causes this kind of mentality in both men and women.[/quote]

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