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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he WILL judge you for whatever happened in high school. Don't tell him right now. He needs therapy too.

I agree with him that you were stupid to get drunk in public. But your "punishment" for that should not have been sexual assault. You need to get mentally stronger and then your husband needs to go to therapy or couples therapy with you, with a male therapist.[/quote]

OP here - Why a male therapist?  Is it stupid for men to get drunk in public?  If a man gets drunk and then is mugged walking home from the bar, does the fact that he was drunk feature in the conversation? I'm trying to be open to your words because I realize that the world can be more dangerous for women and so we have to be careful.  And it just makes me angry that this is where the conversation goes - because believe me. I'm already doing enough of that inner dialogue.  From my husband, if he thinks that, OK.  But it is the very last thing I need to hear from him. from you, ok, you are a stranger to me so it doesn't hurt so much. It's a fact. But I appreciate the advice and honesty.  It's true - I was stupid.  And of course I didn't deserve that.  Either time.  Thanks.[/quote]

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