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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sorry you are in this spot. Your wife doesn't understand your stress and you probably don't understand where she is coming from. First, how is she as a SAHM? Is she happy? Organized? Or is she constantly bitching about how hard it is, how lonely she is, how bored she is, etc. If it's the former, your wife needs to find a job and those kids need to go to daycare because she isn't cut out for SAHPing. WHICH IS FINE. No judgment because we all have needs and the day to day with kids is a calling not all of us want. If she is happy, then you might want to try to make more of an effort to have a connection. I know you're busy but when was it you had a conversation with your wife when neither of you were distracted or exhausted? Because I find even "date nights" tiring because you want to make the moment special. Do you have a time to talk for ten minutes every day (during the day?). [/quote]
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