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[quote=Anonymous]I have been dating this new guy for about a little over a month.

While he is not an unattractive person, he is also not really my "physical" type. Meaning I usually do not date men who look like him.

He has a cute face, but has a round belly. He also doesn't clip his nails short like I like on a man, but he doesn't have talons either.  :shock:

Anyway, things have been progressing nicely so far. We go out to dinner, see movies and hang out at my house playing board games.

He is very funny which is a [u]huge[/u] trait I love in a man. Nothing is sexier to me than a man who can make me laugh. In fact, a sense of humor is on my top three list for a man.

(The others are integrity and good character, of course.)

He also treats me [i]excellent[/i], has a stable job/career and has told his friends and family about us.

The sex is mediocre at best, but we haven't dated long enough for me to really give that a fair rating. Stay tuned...

Anyway, my question is this:

Has anyone ever grown to be physically attracted to someone in time? For example, when you first meet someone, you think to yourself, "This person is really nice and fun to be around, however physically they are just not my type."

Yet, because they are decent to you and you like being around them a lot, you give it some time. And then with time, you end up growing physically attracted to them either by getting used to how they look or just by the great characteristics they have.

I want to make this relationship work because he really is the best guy I have ever dated, yet sadly I was more physically attracted to the scum bags I have dated prior.

By the way, we are both in our early 40's.

Thank you for your input.  :-) [/quote]

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