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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm finding out that baptisms are a very big thing in DH's family.  They're big to me too, but not as the social event that my IL's see them as.  DC is getting baptized this summer and MIL and FIL are insisting on coming, except they want us to pay their travel expenses!  (They live halfway across the country).  We're not poor, but we do have very expensive childcare, and this will deplete our vacation fund plus some, which means no vacation this year and possibly next year.  They also want us to throw a big party for DC.  DH has told me there's no other way and he won't put his foot down with mom and dad.  I've offered to fly them here on award tickets, but they "don't fly that airline, dear."  I just wanted a sacrament performed and now it's costing us $1500+ at the very LEAST (we don't have room in our house for them so we'd have to put them up in a hotel as well).  Am I in the wrong here?  [/quote]

absofuckinglutely not.

this sounds like the dh in the other thread...if he won't put his foot down and say NO then you do it. [/quote]

Oh, I did.  [b]But I can say no all I want, and he'll still buy the tickets.[/b]  They live in a small town with barely any air service and it's [i]expensive[/i].  I cringe just thinking of the cost.
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Yeah, file this one under "marital problem, not family problem".[/quote]

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