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[quote=Anonymous]Your parents feel like they have no place in your life and that you and your family don't respect them any more.   When your 4-year old called your mom "off-putting", it was a confirmation (to her) that you consider them unpleasant to be around.

I have a similar relationship with my parents and I have dealt with it as follows:

1.  I call them every weekend when the kids are in bed and talk at length with my mother.

2.  I visit by myself once a year.

3.  I ignore the digs and keep the conversation positive by asking them questions and affirming their good qualities.

Now my children are grown and I have a wonderful relationship with my parents.  I also can see how parents can feel displaced, even when they have careers and friendships since the relationship with one's children is not replaceable.  Talk to your children about what great parents their grandparents were, their special qualities, and interesting stories/facts about their lives.

This may seem like work now but it will pay off in the long run, trust me.

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