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[quote=Anonymous]My Dh and I have tried everything with our finances and nothing works. First, we tried separate accounts and divided the expenses. This was a mess because it turned out he didn't pay a lot of the bills, he even had his car repoed. Then, we tried one account that I managed only but he was always upset with me because he didn't feel like he ever had money and could spend. He would just withdrawal lump sums and argue that it was his money too. Now, we have one jt. account and 2 separate accts. but I am starting to see a trend of him using the jt. acct. for unbudgeted personal items. I am always stressed about our finances and I do not know what to do. I have tried talking to him, scheduling budgeting meetings, emailing him, etc. He is a spender and likes "nice" things. I like nice things too but I budget and spend cautiously depending if we have the available money. I am sooooo frustrated and don't know what to do. Ughhh- just venting, thanks. [/quote]
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