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[quote=Anonymous]My parents divorced in 1986 and had a very nasty custody battle ensued.  They fought in front of us and slammed each other to my sister and I.
It was hell.  I am now 33 and pregnant with my first child.  My sister has  2 sons and is visiting for Easter.
My father lives near me with his gifriemd and we are soending Easter weekend with him.
I took some adorable pictures of my father playing with my nephew yesterday.  I uploaded them to FB and realized that I couldn't tag dad's girlfriend in them or my mother would have an absolute shit fit.  She already had been givin my sister and I a hard time for spending the holiday away from her.
My father talks almost incessantly about how much he dislikes my mother.  I will make an innocent comment about something and he'll turn it into a story about something my mother once did.  My sister and I have to make plans based on where the other parent will be.
I dread having to deal with logistics when I have this baby.
I've tried asking them to stop.  It doesn't work.  I'm planning to ask Dad to sit in on a therapy session with me to work some of this out.
When do adult children stop having to pay for their parent's divorce?[/quote]

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