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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I need him to acknowledge my feelings are valid. [/quote]

OP, this is a problem. I think this is a problem you have with you.

Is there adultery? addiction? abuse?. The 3 A's, those are good reasons for divorce.

Otherwise, you may be trying to use emotional blackmail to your advantage.

"Your feelings" that everyone has to tip toe around.[/quote]

It is not as simple as that. Example, I explain I want him to move DC off the counter, because he is using the toaster and I am worries she will get burned. He says he is watching. She gets burned. Never ever will he say, oops or maybe I should have chosen differently. He will never admit his choices led to her getting hurt.

Repeat this over and over.  And I am not allowed to get upset after incidents like the toaster. There is no acknowledgement of responsibility, which is how normal people live.

See, and because there is no acknowledgement of his responsibility, he feels like it is my feelings he is tip toing around.

I did tell him marriage counseling is a condition of my return. I hope some pp's are right and that it could work for us. I know the problems are not all him, but we can't even talk about our problems when one person cannot accept their role in them.[/quote]

What are your plans for shared custody if he doesn't agree to counseling? Are you comfortable leaving your child alone with him?[/quote]

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