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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand how a person who values virginity for themselves would be o.k. with marrying a person who didn't value their own virginity to the point where you are glad that they have experience.   What's the point of holding out again?  I'm confused... [/quote]
Some people are fine just making choices for themselves and not dictating what others have to do.[/quote]

I guess I would expect this to be a pretty important value if you are willing to wait until your wedding night.  I understand not caring to dictate what others do.  But I would think you would want your spouse to share the same values that you do.

I'm also confused as to how an experienced person (one who has not held back) would be o.k. with waiting for their wedding night to have sex with their bride/groom.  Seems like that would be torture.  I'm not putting them down for waiting, just wondering why they would be o.k. with waiting....hope that makes sense.[/quote]

PP who lost it at 36 here.

MY DH was not a virgin. This was actually something I had thought about prior to meeting him . Would I be ok with it for me it was more important to find someone whose values matched  it's not as cut and dry as  how long they held on to their  virginity.  I also realized that  a person could be a virgin waiting for marriage and be totally wrong for me. In short it wasn't number one on my list.

In my case DH waited for his wedding to his first wife  he was 28 going on 29 at the time. So no he wasn;t a virgin when I met him ,but we had similar values, and he was everything else I wanted in a life partner. [/quote]

Makes sense.  Glad that you found each other.  You may not have been his very first but you will be his last and that's the important thing.[/quote]

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