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[quote=Anonymous]I was the poster in the "Do you regret losing your virginity at the age that you did?" thread that waited until marriage so I'll take your survey.  :wink:

[quote=Anonymous]1. How old were you when you married?[/quote]
24, husband was 30
[quote=Anonymous]2. Are you still married to the spouse you lost your virginity to?[/quote]
Yes
[quote=Anonymous]3. Did you grow up religious?[/quote]
I grew up catholic. Parochial school until high school, church every week. Holy Communion & confirmation, observed HDO. So yes religious but not [i]religious[/i], ya know?
[quote=Anonymous]4. Did you or do you have any sexual hangups?[/quote]
Nope.
[quote=Anonymous]5. Was your spouse also a virgin?[/quote]
No & I was number 18 for him.
[quote=Anonymous]6. If your spouse was more experienced  was that an issue for you?[/quote]
No it wasn't and while I would not have ruled out marrying a virgin I was happy that my spouse had experience.
[quote=Anonymous]7. How do you or will you instruct your children regarding sex and sexuality?[/quote]
I want them to wait until they are 18. Yes I know there is no magic number but I want them to be adults and out of the house so to speak. Also to truly know the person and not jump straight into a sexual relationship for their first time. They are being raised catholic as well, if that matters, but not in parochial. I do want them to know that they can and should speak to us if they are under 18 and need access to birth control.
[quote=Anonymous]8. Do you regret your decision to wait? Was it worth it?[/quote]
I do not, it was absolutely worth the wait but I don't think this choice is for everyone.
[quote=Anonymous]9. Do you and your spouse have an active sex life?[/quote]
Yes, 3-4 times a week average, sometimes more. I'm 42 now and my sex drive is raging like crazy.
[quote=Anonymous]10. Are you male or female?[/quote]
Female
[quote=Anonymous]11. When you were single were you open with others about your choice to wait?[/quote]
Yes, always. I thought it was only fair. My HS boyfriend while he certainly kept asking was respectful of my choice, he was a virgin also. One college boyfriend was respectful and one was cheating on me on the side and saying "you are worth the wait" to my face. [/quote]

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