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[quote=Anonymous]So, I was out of state visiting a friend recently and stayed in her home with her and her husband. Was provided a guest room to sleep in during my stay. Friends marriage was on the rocks already at the point, and has since further deteriorated to the point of divorce. Yesterday, while my friend was going through her husband's computer to find some financial stuff while he was out of their home, and she came across a file full of pornography. In that file, she also found a video of me changing the guest room of her home while I was staying with her. It appears her husband set up his iPad at a discretion location to film me. I had every expectation of privacy while I was staying in their home and never changed in common room- always a bedroom or bathroom by myself. Horrified, she immediatley deleted the file, as she thought that was the best way to protect me. However, she checked the trash file on the computer to make sure it was gone, and could not find the file. Nor does she know if the video is being retained on the cloud. Her husband is now out of state until Wednesday and has his computer with him. It is unclear if any evidence of the video still exists, though something in my gut tells me it does. I do believe my friend is telling me the truth. She was sobbing hysterically while telling me, in part b/c I am 13 weeks pregnant and she feared telling me could cause stress that would harm my baby. My husband, justifiably, wants to take a bat to this guy's head. However, I am trying to keep him cool until we can know our legal options, if any. So, if there is anyone on this forum that could advise me on my rights, protections, next steps, I would really, really appreciate it. I have not seen the video myself and am only going off my friend's statement, which I believe to be true. [/quote]
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