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[quote=Anonymous]I am new to the area and looking to experiment while being single. I joined a hookup site last weekend and started chatting with this hot guy. He told me the next that he lived about 40 minutes away and could only meet on weekends. I was cool with that. He initially agreed we should be exclusive for health reasons. Then changed his mind saying he wants the option to hook up with others. I said I didn't like the flip flopping and I am for health reasons, I don't want him to fucking everyone under the sun. He said he was willing to do exclusivity then.

I texted Monday evening to ask when to meet and we chatted for like 20 minutes via text. I didn't reach out again but he sent a pic to me on Thursday and tried initiating conversation but I was too busy to respond. I emailed yesterday morning asking if he was still up for this. I told him how I met another guy and I wanted to meet soon so I can make a decision. He seemed pissed and asked if I hooked up with him.

Hours later he drunkenly texts. He tells me how I am asking for too much ( exclusivity) and I'm coming on strong. How he decided this wouldn't work. Now I am a little annoyed because he agreed to exclusivity and I have been pretty low-key with not asking much. I feel like I am being strung along and wasting time because he won't meet me. After a few hours he tells me he wants this but only if there is no exclusivity.

I am a little confused by all this. This was my first attempt at casual and it's not going too well. What is going on with this dude changing his mind, asking if I fucked anyone else, and then saying I'm coming on too strong. I need outsiders opinions.

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