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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  I've always thought that the first date from online dating is not really a first date since you don't already know this person.  It's more of a meet and greet.  It's not like if you asked out someone from work where you know each other and already know there is a connection by the fact that she says yes.  In that situation I would say your first meeting is a first date.

So, that said, women, what would you prefer for a first meeting with someone you met online?  Many people say coffee or a drink.  The problem I have with coffee is that if it's in the middle of the day, I would find it hard to try and flirt in the daylight.  It just doesn't seem to be the right setting for a first meeting.  OK, so then you either have coffee or a drink in the evening.  But when?  If all you are having is coffee or a drink, it doesn't make sense to just have that and then not have a meal with it as you are starving.  But if you did have a meal, then all of a sudden it has turned into a date.  I just know that neither side wants to feel trapped up into something on the first meeting if the chemistry is not there.  You don't want to be waiting for your bill in awkward silence while you are waiting to get the hell out of there.  Because online dating really is blind dating.  Yes, you see their picture and profile, but what is on there and how they really are can be completely different things.

So try to schedule it immediately after work or later in the night after dinner?  [/quote]

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