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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not a conflict, but rather an assault and I would treat it as such.  I doubt that I would go to the parents, but if I did, it would be IN ADDITION to reporting it to the school.  And, FWIW, that boy will be lucky if you don't go to the police.  [/quote]

+1!

Signed,
A Former School Counselor

When things like this happen in school, it's very important to let the school know. Chances are this kid is doing it to someone else also. I couldn't agree more that this is NOT a conflict. It's bullying and harassment and when it became physical he opened himself up to really serious consequences.

OP, I've worked in schools for many years and they are political organizations designed to protect themselves. Talk to your daughter about keeping detailed notes about what's happening. Kids like this tend to push the limits- if he's not held accountable now he will likely not stop and the behavior will escalate.

As a parent I would want the parent of the kid my child harassed to let me know directly, BUT unless you know the parents you don't know the reaction you'll get. It's crap shoot.

Whatever you choose to do, please keep a record of the incidents and the communication you have with the school or parents.

Good luck to you and DD.[/quote]

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