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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the replies.  I agree with the above poster that said it shouldn't be that way, where mothers and daughters talk about each other behind their backs.  She does know that the stuff I told her was personal information not to be shared with anyone.  It really bums me out because now I don't know how much I can trust her.  And I will be asking her about the incident.[/quote]

OP, this is a good start, but be careful. If your sister is trustworthy, then she will stop telling your mom things if you ask her to. If she is manipulative, she will get you to think you can trust her again, then continue her old ways but with the added twist of masking sure your mom doesn't let it get back to you. If she's stupid she will insist that it's your mother's right to know everything you tell her, and that she won't keep anything from your mom.

I speak from experience. I hope your sister is a true and kind friend and not like my sister.[/quote]

Sadly, the truth is that not only did her sister break her trust, somehow her mom got the impression OP was whining and complaining.  OP cannot trust her sister to keep confidence, and it's likely she also can't trust her to fairly represent what she tells others about OP.

Even if OP's sister is truly sorry, that shows bad judgement and OP should just think about whether she wants to risk that happening all over again.[/quote]

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