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[quote=Anonymous]I'm having a hard time deciding whether or not to confront my sister about a situation that happened about a week ago.  We were talking at her house and I told her some stuff going on I was disappointed about/ going through, with my work, my house, and just some personal stuff.  This was all told to her in confidence.  We have been super close my entire life, I have always trusted her with everything.  And she has done the same to me.  Three days after our chat, my mom calls me and basically discusses and or brings up every single subject/issue I brought up with my sister.  And not only that, but she makes it sound like I was just complaining about every single thing that was discussed, which was not the case.  I was actually asking my sister for advice/ her opinion on a lot of those issues.  I was completely shocked after the phone call, but didn't ask my mom if my sister had told her all this, because it was very obvious that she went and basically "tattled" I guess?  And also just made it seem to my mom like I was completely ungrateful/unhappy with some things going, which was not the case.  So basically I'd like to hear other's perspective if I should approach my sister or not, about why she told my mom these things which I told her not to mention to anyone.  Not sure if this makes a difference or not, but I'm 27 and she's 29, both married.  Oh, and for those that might think she told my mom because maybe these were serious issues, they are not.  It also makes me wonder if she's been doing this behind my back for years, but I never caught on, or my mom never mentioned it.[/quote]

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