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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BREAK UP NOW!!!!! Read all the threads about sexless marriages- they are a time machine to your future if you marry this man.

I know of what I speak. I married a man who seemed great but the sex was lackluster. I thought, well, maybe amazing sex is not the most important thing in a lifetime partnership, maybe it will get better over time as we grow into our marriage, maybe I don't need sex as much as I think I do. The answer is NO, it is not okay. I grew resentful because I did want satisfying sex, and then my sex drive did die because it was so frustrating to never be really satisfied. I tried telling him directly what I liked, showing him, asking about fantasies, etc but he was not interested in responding. Not only was he sexually unsatisfying, I realized after years of this that it's a sign of larger personality flaws too- selfishness, lack of emotional connection and empathy, rigid thinking, etc.

Do yourself and him a favor and end it now. Life is way too long to trap yourself into bad sex.[/quote]

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I think that breaking up (in my case) is drastic. He has made great efforts to improve[/quote]
Okay he has made efforts, which is great, but is it working? Breaking up with him is less drastic than going the rest of your life unsatisfied sexually . I hope you guys can work it out but don't be so quick to sacrifice yourself here.[/quote]

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