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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] As a general, kind human being matter, I'd like to do what I can to make her happier about her body. As a self-centered husband issue, I don't want her body image issues getting in the way of her enjoying sex with me. [/quote] OP, you're a good guy. Honestly, if it were me, this bit right here that you told us, is probably pretty similar to what I'd need to hear. Preface it with, "I love you and think you look great." And then drop it, because[b] there's only so much you can do. She's got to get to this place herself[/b]. [/quote] +1 I have similar issues. My DH makes it very obvious that he still desires me (and it is very quickly obvious ;)) . But I feel so self-conscious sometimes. Unfortunately, it's all in the woman's head. Just keep what your doing OP. My DH hasn't let up in letting me know how much he still desires me after 15 yrs together and 2 kids. Sometimes it helps, sometimes not.[/quote] +100 I had horrible stretch marks my first pregnancy along with a lot of weight gain so I was very self conscious but DH assured me that I was still all right in his eyes, still desirable, and that helped me get through it. Someone to hold and listen to me when I was feeling down, just to be there.[/quote]
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