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[quote=Anonymous]I have to wonder about the nature of these innocent mistakes.  My husband had an affair, but because he didn't do it with malice, and it was a mistake, it didn't count.  Totally minimized his "mistake."   I was upset for two years.  When he started downplaying his "mistake," like pretending it was something as simple as forgetting to pick up coffee at the grocery store, i would be angry. Then  he would act innocent and surprised and turn it around on me asking what my problem was.  You get the point...... I am now divorcing.

I'm NOT saying that's what's going on here, but there needs to be more information.  I'm not comfortable with the line, "I make innocent mistakes and my wife flies off the handle and it lasts forever."  Lots of pieces to this story are missing.

Get a different counselor.  I'm not buying that you're 100% innocent loving (makinginnocentmistakes) spouse or that shes 100% a lunatic (chronicallyangry spouse.)  My take is you're both participating in this dance to some extent.[/quote]

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