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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We've done counseling. I've said all those things. Its all just her unfortunate way of dealing with anger. Whether or not its even a situation where anger is appropriate (and that is often debatable) she will simmer on it for a while. I may sometimes say things that are insensitive or whatnot, but its never with malicious intent. Its just a mistake[/quote]

So let me get this straight:  she gets angry over your mistakes, and counseling said "it's just her way of dealing with anger, and there's no justification for her being angry."  Most of the time counselors will try to look out what's going on in the whole system and dynamics, without blame, including the individual with poor coping skills.  I'm sorry, but you're describing yourself as Mr. Innocent Mistake who suffers the wrath of Evil Angry Wife.  Now, poor you, you just want to be loving to Evil Angry Wife, but it's so hard. If I were your counselor that would raise some questions.  If its abuse, get help or get out.  If it isn't abuse, I see no love in you, just sneaky blame.   What do you think will happen if you become more loving?[/quote]

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