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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]sexually and emotionally it can really be difficult to look past that and be romantic and loving back. How do you go about looking past and angry or neglectful spouse, putting behind your own hurt, and just showing how much you love and care about them?[/quote]

I'd have to vote that without confrontation tell them how much you love them, recall out loud why you got together, and what you think is great about them, hold them and touch them.

Then add some things you wish for like - I wish we had sex like we used to - I love you so much, I don't understand this and it hurts - it's really wearing on me, and I'm feeling lonely, invisible,  blah blah blah....  What can we do to fix this or get back on track, I'm really worried...... If you approach it as a problem you share rather than as a criticism, and work it as problem solving, and discuss how you feel rather than blame, maybe you can Create a honest moment of sharing and connection.

What exactly is going on?  Are you a DW or DH?[/quote]

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