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[quote=Anonymous]This is a typical example of why I look forward to being divorced from this man. He believes there is something that makes him special and therefore able and most importantly ENTITLED to text while driving. If you tell him that bad things happen when people text and drive, he gets this stupid "yeah whatever you dont control me" look.  We are recently separated, and I cringe every time I found out from 8 year old DD that he has been texting AGAIN. Say anything to him about it and he flies off the handle, or says he isnt, or whatever. IN fact, once DD said it was dangerous and he said "YOUR MOM DOESNT CONTROL ME".

He is glued to his stupid phone. Constantly on facebook, constantly messaging. I dont know what to do to make it stop. I hope he gets into an accident while texting without our daughter in the car. But I am terrified that he will kill our kid with his stupid need to be free from control.

I had an idea to get a tracker for his car, then track his cell phone texts (I have full account control and in fact could maybe just shut off texting for him, but then he would derail mentally and take it out on our child) but then what would I be able to do with this "evidence"? Can I bring it to the cops? I somehow doubt it.

Its very scary that he takes this stance about being controlled, when in fact it was he who was abusive towards me. There was not one aspect of his life that I controlled except those things about which he was always purposefully helpless, like doing the books, managing the money, etc.

Ive never taken advantage of this "control" I could have over his phone- but I seriously could cut off his texting. But Im afraid of his reaction.

Anyone have any ideas here?

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