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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a 99.9% likelihood it will not be well received and will do no good, and that they will turn it around and think and/or say nasty things to or about you. So if your motive is to "help," I think it's somewhat futile. I'd just move on.[/quote]

Exactly. Unfortunately, most men are babies, and they will act like a baby does when confronted with their faults.

The best thing to do is ice someone out. I once text cancelled on a dinner date at the last minute (interestingly enough, I didnt actually had a reason, but my intuition was pinging like crazy, so I made up an elaborate excuse about having to work late and being so sorry about not being able to make it) and this loser would not stop texting me for maybe 2 days.  He accused me of "leading him on" even though I had literally met him once and agreed to go on a date and that was it. Wish i had saved the barrage of texts to submit to creepyPMs- he must have sent me 50+ messages, at the least (This was in the days before Apple allowed you to block numbers on the iPhone so I couldnt do anything to stop the texts).  And I was extremely polite when I cancelled.

Moral of the story?  Men are crazy and it's really not something you want to fuck with.  Cut your losses and move on- you dont need to be the recipient of some ragebaby's vitriol. [/quote]

PP has some issues that she needs to work out, but her advice is basically sound.

Unless he requests your advice on his personality, and he seems like a reasonable person who is not going to lose his sh*t upon hearing a painful truth, I'd wouldn't offer it.

Would you like it if people started giving you unsolicited advice about your appearance, or how you speak? You might think "yes," but you probably wouldn't like it when it actually happened.

Ultimately, someone else's personality flaws are their problem and unless you are a close friend or a relative, it's not your problem and not worth the risk.
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