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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've just had a couple of dates with guys who really need to hear some honest feedback about why they are not having dating success.  But do I tell them?  Is it a kindness to them or will it just make them more insecure?

So one of the guys is from South America but been here 30 years.  Problem is he has not worked hard enough on his English and doesn't know any idiomatic references at all.   It made it impossible to joke around with him, he didn't know words like 'pet peeve', and 'in cahoots'.  Should I tell him?

The other guy was a talk-talk-talker, and really didn't listen well.  I'd get halfway through a sentence and he would take part of what I said and run with it, without waiting to hear the point of my anecdote.

Both of these guys could theoretically fix these chronic barriers to closeness but not unless someone clues them in.  Should I?
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Your job is not to fix someone.  There will be a woman out there who will look past this and find happiness with them.[/quote]

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