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Reply to "He says he's old-fashioned, but keeps letting me set up dates, and pay"
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[quote=Anonymous]If you expect him to pay (which it sounds like you do) then don't reach for the bill. Let him reach for it. If you are "cool" with splitting, then be cool. Someone can be "a bit old-fashioned" and still feel that in the very preliminary stages of on-line dating, they should not have to foot the bill because that's not really a relationship and they shouldn't have to pay all the freight. Once that person is in a solid relationship, then they would pick up the tab, every time. The fact that he hasn't asked or your phone number and lets you take the lead on restaurant choice and pay all the time indicates to me that he is ambivalent. I would stop messaging him and lay back -- way, way back.[/quote]
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