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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - I'd like to work it out.  I don't understand why he won't fish or cut bait.  [/quote]

You want to work it out by seeing other people?   :shock:  Let us know how it turns out![/quote]

OP - No he doesn't want to work with me to figure out what we need to do to reconnect, and he doesn't want to divorce.  I guess I could initiate an adversarial divorce, which is not the option I'd prefer.  I was hoping it would either wake him up to committing to either divorcing or working on things.  If it is neither, I would like to find a companion with whom I could share enjoyable time, and have fun again, and proceed with divorcing.[/quote]

OP, it doesn't work like that. Someone who is worth having a real relationship with isn't going to put up with this bullshit. Both you and your husband are acting like kids: "No you divorce." No, YOU divorce." Be the adult in the relationship and end this. THEN you can pursue a healthier relationship with fun and companionship. That will not happen until you finish this business with your husband. [/quote]

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