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[quote=Anonymous]Im going through a hard marriage time, precipitated by discovering my husband's affair.  I've asked him to work it out, but he just argues with me when I try to discuss how hurt I was and tells me he's tired of having his flaws discussed.  I would have liked to have seen massive effort toward repairing this and making it right, but he just wants to pretend it never happened, so I'm always the bad guy bringing it up when I get too distressed to hold it in.

I don't want to divorce, but I feel hated in my marriage.  It's killing me to live this way. I feel invisible.  He won't do counseling.

I've had my limit, but seeing other people not really the solution that I want.  I'd like my husband to either divorce me or work on things.
He settled into doing neither.  And we can't talk without him getting huffy and shutting down conversation with how unfair it is he has to hear about it.

Why is he acting this way?  I guess if I understood maybe there would be a better solution.[/quote]

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