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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry that your family has been through all of this. You, however sound like the voice of reason and compassion and empathy. I see nothing wrong with having limited contact with SIL, acknowledging cards, etc. The bottom line is she is a mentally ill person who was self-medicating and fell into the abyss of drug addiction. Proceed slowly, you don't have to trust someone to love them, you just have to have strong, clear boundaries. I hope you husband can get past his hurt. There is really not much of a point in trying to get a mentally ill person to admit that their actions hurt you. Try to move on and do not allow her in, in such a way that she could cause further damage. If she earns your trust over an extended time then good, if not, so be it. [/quote]
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