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[quote=Anonymous]I choose not to go to my grandfather's funeral. And I didn't have any scheduling conflict. I was 18. I'm middle-aged now. I think my decision was a good one. I didn't want to remember my grandfather that way. He was my closest relative. Please understand not everyone feels like you do re: funerals. I have since buried several family members with big elaborate funerals which I attended and was an important part of. I still feel that, when someone prefers, they should not be expected to attend a funeral. And it has absolutely no connection to the love/respect they have the deceased or the loved ones left behind. That said, DC probably couldn't get the time off without some sacrifice which you don't relate to. Get off your high horse.. Love your loved-ones. They love you unless you push them away. And, by the way, you need to respect your DC DC is an adult. It's their decision. Completely.[/quote]
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