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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your sister's name is on the deed but not the loan? I'm not sure how that works. I think she should consult a lawyer and get out of the house, but ultimately it's up to your sister to do damage control here and set up healthy boundaries for herself. You can't do that for her.

What you can do for yourself is not start giving your mom money and keep firm with healthy boundaries. [/quote]

Yes. They added her name to the deed, but you can't just transfer a loan. Being upside down on the house made a second transaction impossible with $30K to cover the gap. My sister was helping her out so she could buy the other place. My mom couldn't rent it out for what she was paying for it or sell it.

My sister does not want to move her family out. She is planning to stop being considerate and my mother will want to leave. I suspect if my mother can't sleep until noon on the couch everyday, she won't be as comfortable there. My mother asked to move in with me. That's never going to happen. After she called my sister a c*nt and told me she didn't care if she ever spoke to me again, I don't care if she has to sleep in her car. My sister and I are 40ish, and way too old for this crap. I'm so over it, but I'm upset that my sister is upset. [/quote]

Your mother won't move out, she will take your sister to court AND WIN.

Your sister is out those 7 years of payments. Tell her to move her family out.

Your sister, you, and your brother need to get far away from your mother and not expect ANYTHING you did for her or ANY MONEY you paid for things to help her to EVER come back to you.[/quote]

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