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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not married but I dont plan on sleeping with my husband a lot when I get married.  I can get myself off whenever I feel like it and generally find that guys are pretty clueless during sex.

If I met someone who was a master in the bedroom, maybe my opinion would change.

But if it doesnt, I can get myself off and expect husband to do the same.

If he wants to step out of the marriage I really dont care as long as it doesnt affect the resources he gives to me and the children,

And I would think he was pathetic for needing to do that, but whatever.. men are dogs.[/quote]
I hope you never marry. The poor guy...[/quote]
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not married but I dont plan on sleeping with my husband a lot when I get married.  I can get myself off whenever I feel like it and generally find that guys are pretty clueless during sex.

If I met someone who was a master in the bedroom, maybe my opinion would change.

But if it doesnt, I can get myself off and expect husband to do the same.

If he wants to step out of the marriage I really dont care as long as it doesnt affect the resources he gives to me and the children,

And I would think he was pathetic for needing to do that, but whatever.. men are dogs.[/quote]
I hope you never marry. The poor guy...[/quote]

Sex is not my love language and I just dont understand the neediness around it.

If I'm not having good, passionate sex... I dont want it at all. I foresee that having kids around would be a big impediment to that happening and I'm okay with it.  It seems to me like anyone with half a brain should also understand this.

Now, if DH wants to fly me to a cozy bed and breakfast and make love all night, that would work.

But duty sex?  Nah.  Not a fan. [/quote]

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