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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm feeling the same way, OP.  My mom died 10 years ago when I was a couple years out of college.  She missed my wedding and the birth of my two boys.  I miss her all the time and am so sad that my kids will never meet her.   I told my 3 year old that I missed her a lot and I started crying in the car.  The rest of the day he kept asking, "do you still miss her?"  God, yes.  I know she would have been an amazing grandma.[/quote]

I'm sorry you are in such pain, but don't make your grief a burden to your child.  Get some help, seek therapy.  This is not normal.[/quote]

I'm the PP you quoted.  I have only cried about my mom in front of my kid two times, my sadness it is not a burden on him.  He is curious about the world and wanted to know why I was sad.  I think it's good that he knows that I love my mom even though she's not here.  I still want him to know that she was a great woman.  
I think it's okay to be sad about something like this, it is normal and it would be really sad if I was never sad, if that makes sense.  [/quote]

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