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[quote=Anonymous]My husband sometimes speaks to our 14 year old son in a very demeaning, unkind, harsh, inappropriate way. Tonight, in private, I started to say something about it and my husband said, "oh, another lecture?" I am really furious. I don't know why he says these mean, harsh things to our son and I'm worried he is damaging his self esteem and making him feel like crap. Our son is a gentle, sweet, extremely well behaved people pleaser. We couldn't ask for a better son. The other morning there was a plate of bacon on the table and my son took 3 pieces. My husband said something like, my you're greedy and selfish and not thinking about the rest of us. My feelings would be hurt if someone said that to me. I mentioned something to my DH and he agreed that it was harsh. Tonight I didn't hear the whole conversation but I heard my husband say "stand UP" in a really angry tone. Then something like "when I tell you to do something, you do it." It's just wrong and unconscionable to talk to our son with so little awareness of how it makes him feel (bad, I'm sure). My DH must stop this and think about talking to our son the way he (DH) would like to be talked to. Now my DH is so defensive about it and I'm so mad. He just sees it as me criticizing his parenting. Any ideas about how to get him to stop?[/quote]

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