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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are missing a great opportunity to establish a new bond with your spouse. How would you view it if he ran away for a year after experiencing the pressure of supporting a family? Could it be that you are wistful of your childrens' ability to adopt a new life elsewhere free of financial burden?[/quote]

If I were your DH, I would not wait for you for a year. I would look into separation and find a spouse who wanted to spend time with me.

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If I were DH, I would assume this is you asking for permission to leave me. If I were your DCs, I would be totally distraught at your nonchalance of leaving my father and wonder if you resented the sacrifices you made of raising me. It would be hard for me to talk to you for a long time if you even mentioned this to me, let alone followed through with it.

OTOH, I could totally handle you wanting a week vacation all by yourself (if I were either DH or DCs), or taking a month-long vacation to see a relative. But more than 2 weeks away and I would start to wonder if something else was going on.[/quote]

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