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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, when my X came out of the blue asking for a divorce (sex and everything was the same, no changes) he told me it's because he was in love with his boss. The months that followed were him with her, lying to me, they were just friends, nothing happened, I gained too much weight, I wasn't who he thought, etc. Etc. Point is, he kept denying the affair, but had her close down all her Social Media sites, pretends to not be friends with her or anything at all, yet my son constantly speaks of daddy's friend. Several friends and once a completely random acquaintance have spoken of their "intimate friendship." We divorce and he still will not admit the relationship, yet my son has mentioned spending time at her place more than once. He's a scum bag, super abusive, a great liar, a gaslighter, etc. So I dunno why it bothers me that today, I clicked on a friend's profile to support his gofundme page, to find his most recent contributor that "friend." She's not mutual friends with him on FB, and her contribution came after my Ex's. It bothers me that he won't admit the affair. Part of it is he's stubborn, and part of it is super scary, it's exactly what his sister did. She cheated on her husband, everyone know with whom, denied it, 8 years later, still with the OM, still lying and hiding in front of family, yet pictures always pop up on FB and then disappear. It shouldn't matter. It shouldn't bother me. BUT IT DOES. Why am i seeking validation that a scum bag who isn't even man enough to admit he cheated, has? I know his whole point, is as was his whole point during our marriage, to prove to me that I "wasn't worth his love,  never earned it" and I "made up the affair because I couldn't just take that he doesn't love me anymore." Mean flamies of DCUM, come out. I need to snap out of this. Expecting him to admit he cheated and is with that (btw, thank God, ugly bitch) is like expecting to win the lottery. [b]Why is this bothering me?[/b][/quote]
Because he is not really a scumbag, and she is not that ugly? :lol: Get over it, OP. Marriages break up, that's life.[/quote]

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