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[quote=Anonymous]Well, first of all - you really shouldn't have been snooping.  But since you did, I'd be inclined to agree with you that you should let it go.

First wives have all sorts of emotional issues surrounding second (or third...) wives.  Your husband obviously isn't buying into it and is a wise man to not pass on the messages from his ex to you.

I would seriously avoid putting your husband in the middle of this.  The adult thing to do would be to talk to his ex about it.  Since you are non confrontational, it probably wouldn't go well for you.

The kids will be gone soon.  You are doing the right thing by helping out with them.  You knew that your DH had kids, so by marrying him, you kind of agreed to the whole blended family thing.

In my experience, people are smart.  His ex probably is only badmouthing you to your DH and her closest friends.  That's to be expected.  People understand that there are complicated dynamics in play.  Hold your head high and be the better person.[/quote]

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